You Don’t Settle in Your Career…
Why settle for unsafe love?
The First-Date Gut Check GUIDE Could Save
You from 3 Months of Heartache!!!
You’ve done the inner work… the books, the therapy, the soul-searching.
And yet after spending months on dating, heartbreak keeps dressing up in new faces.
You're Crushing It Professionally
You lead, manage, build, and perform like a pro.
You’re grounded in logic and responsibility.
People rely on you. You get things done.
But Love Still Feels Like Roulette
when it comes to love, you’re second-guessing everything.
Your picker feels off — like emotional safety is a mystery.
Your picker feels off — like emotional safety is a mystery.
Before You Go On Another Date… Stop ✋
and Ask Yourself This:
You don’t need another list of green flags.
You need one clear question that brings you back to your body.
If your body says no... 🙅
❌It doesn’t matter how “cute” they are.
❌It doesn’t matter how aligned your goals sound.
❌how good the conversation was
Emotional safety is your :
BASELINE Not a BONUS
Here is where you go wrong in healing...
What You
"Think" you Need
A list of dating tips
on YouTube.
Another “5 signs
he/she’s toxic” article.
Advice from friends
who say “just trust your gut”
(when yours feels… off).
Why That
Doesn't Work
It Over-
complicates
It Feels
Self Doubt
It Delays
Real Healing
What You
"Actually" Need
A SIMPLE
Solution.
A self-guided check-in
that helps you feel emotionally
safe in your body.
Do not overthink it.
Do not override it. Trust it.
Is This Person Emotionally Safe???
A self-check-in guide for people who are done mistaking chemistry for safety.
It is designed for the moment after the first date…
When you’re back home, Your mind is racing, and You’re trying to figure out whether
You’re Overthinking Or Ignoring your body’s truth.
Inside this 7-minute practice, you’ll:
Get clear on what emotional safety feels like
Spot hidden red flags that don’t come with sirens.
Green flags you might not realize are signs of emotional safety.
Use soul-aligned journal prompts to check in with your nervous system.
Learn the “3-strikes” rule that helps you STOP rationalizing
unsafe behavior.
3 Strikes. One Gut. Zero Games.
-- This Guide is for You If --
You’re a high-achiever who’s crushing it at work but feels lost in love.
You’ve done the inner work, but still fall into the same dating patterns.
You’ve stayed too long with people who “seemed nice” but left you anxious.
You’re tired of second-guessing yourself & want real, grounded guidance.
Your Next Date Could Be Different.
If YOU change…
❌ DON’T download this guide if...
You’re looking for a quick dating hack or a list of red flags.
✅ This guide won’t tell you who to love
But it will help you recognize when something isn’t right — before you get attached.
🧭 It’s not a script. It’s a practice.
A practice of emotional discernment that helps you tune into your body’s truth.
🔄 It’s a pattern-interrupt.
A simple tool to help you pause, reflect, and return to emotional clarity.
P.S. If someone doesn’t feel emotionally safe three times, they don’t get a fourth.
You don’t need more evidence…
You just need permission to walk away without guilt, without self-doubt, & without explaining your intuition.
This GUIDE has helped dozens of men and women finally break the cycle of unsafe, confusing, or performative dating.
Let your body lead. And watch everything change.
